Don’t let your heredity stop your destiny. Don’t let what was passed down convince you to settle where you are.
Be aware that there are certain situations that are just not good for you. Make a conscious, deliberate effort to focus your mind exclusively on things that will build you up, give you hope and expand the possibilities in all dimensions of your life. You have the capacity and the ability to rebuild your life. What you have gone through can be used to develop another part of yourself.
Don’t be deceived by praises people lavish on you. If you let them get to your head, it’ll be the start of your downfall. Stay humble.
Free yourself from dysfunctional people who are experts at meeting their own needs at the expense of yours. Do not let people stay in your life who trample on your feelings or behave badly. Set clear boundaries so that you do not get caught up their maze of madness, or feel responsible for their life choices or consequences. Live in your own story. Do not try to edit someone else’s.
A word of encouragement after failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success.
Be happy, not because everything is good, but because you can see the good side of everything.
Don’t be afraid to say ‘NO’. Sometimes, as difficult as it might be; that is all you need to do to move on in life. You must say NO to negative people; NO to the naysayers; NO to bitter relationships; NO to your dark past; NO to your current circumstance that is holding you back; NO to those who discourage you. And begin to say YES to your dreams; YES to your future. Say a big YES to the unfolding possibilities around you! Embrace the limitless opportunities life has for you!
To achieve a great life, you must be willing to make a great sacrifice. Make up your mind to go for it! You must want it and fight for it like a drowning man wants air! Decide to create an extraordinary life. Refuse to play small or to give up. Do not follow the crowd. Where there’s a will, there is a way.
Do not let anyone convince you that you can not achieve your dream. They do not know you like that! They have no idea of who you really are. Do not waste time trying to convince them. Keep working your plan and handle your business. Actions speak louder than words.
What you focus your energy on change the direction of your life. The best day you will see is when you can shift your energy in a positive way by developing the Winner’s mentality to get to your goals by any means necessary